Gaylon Ferguson

‘The path of wisdom and compassion begins with the discovery of our basic goodness. Basic goodness is not just a theory or idea to believe in; it is a direct experience of warmth and clarity. This spiritual realization has many practical implications for a world filled with suffering.

Fundamentally, in our true nature, we are beings of great insight, loving-kindness, and compassion. Actions we take based on this innate awareness flow generously, harmoniously, and skillfully, and they help and benefit others. However, when we lose touch with this natural wakefulness, our actions become confused and aggressive, selfishly limited to “me first,” or even “me only.” Confusion is the root of stinginess, while wakefulness is the ground of generosity.

A person dedicated to realizing wisdom for the benefit of all beings is called a “bodhisattva,” one dedicated to universal awakening. Being a bodhisattva requires transcending concepts of being the center of everything happening around us. We must give and give and give again, while simultaneously shedding idealizations of ourselves. Awakened giving lets go of the small and self-serving storyline in which I, the super-heroic “giver,” gives to you, the “needy recipient.” 

Liberated giving is an acknowledgement of flux and change. Today the temporary roles of “giver” and “recipient” flow this way, as I share with you; however, tomorrow things may go in the other direction when you share with me. Neither of us is permanently fixed in the roles of codependent “helper” or “needing to be helped.” Here, giving is less of a big deal, and there’s less sense of who owes what to whom.’ (from Lions Roar)

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