‘Finally we get it: egocentricity can pull off a lot of fascinating stuff, but it has nothing to offer who we truly are. It will not be there at our side to comfort us when we wake up at three a.m. worrying that we have a brain tumor, or when we wake up and realize that the person closest to us did die. The only thing that can give us what we need and long for is the life of the heart.’ (Sweet Zen)